It was probably a knee-jerk reaction on the boyfriend's part and I still feel that he isn't a douchebag simply because of the fact that he wasn't thinking rationally, he just acted. It would not have made him not a douchebag or more of one if he had been attractive, but because he was ugly, he's a douchebag for those actions when an attractive male wouldn't have been one? All I'm really hearing here is "This dude co ck blocked me and got pissed because he knows he has to hold onto this girl because he's ugly and won't get a girl like her again". I've came back from the rest room and had men talking to my wife before.And you know what, when I get there she's like "I would like to introduce you to my husband" and guess what: they leave.[QUOTE="bobaban"] Uh yes it does make him a douchebag.When your GF is hot other dudes WILL hit on her especially in a bar.The same is true in terms of strippers, opposite sex friends, being friends with exes etc.It all depends on the couple as to what is okay and fine with them. It was a stupid situation all around, but being ugly has nothing to do with it. The point is that the angry boyfriend being ugly has no merit in the situation.Don't act like some sort of Gorilla, it's highly unattractive and makes you look stupid, immature and women arent that shallow and actually try and look for a relationship. This is probably what the situation is and I'll give you an example from my own history; In highschool there was an italian girl who I thought was gorgeous and fun to talk to. I then began seeing her with probably the ugliest guy in our grade. She now looks like she's 50 and her face looks dead & h looks like a balding fat mario bros. Just remember though: You're not hitting that and he is. will get you the same thing, and you don't need to give a crap about the di Ido's feelings.
I was using the term to mean his 'best' girl, as in the one who is worth the most to him, or just his girlfriend who he actually cares about.The same is true in terms of strippers, opposite sex friends, being friends with exes etc. I have a name for those kind of guys who would hit someone before figuring out what was happening in a given situation---insecure losers.It all depends on the couple as to what is okay and fine with them. It was a stupid situation all around, but being ugly has nothing to do with it. The point is that the angry boyfriend being ugly has no merit in the situation. People who got stuff going for them don't go around punching people unless it's absolutely necessary.My ex got hit on all the time, it never bothered me, probably because she was very clingly towards me.She was the one that got jealous when I'd get hit on lol.Yesterday I went with some friends to a bar and we were hanging out and having a good time, then I saw this really beautiful girl, she was technically alone so I decided to go and have a chat with her, the thing that I remember the most about this girl is that she was very shy, well the point is that when I was talking to this girl a guy tried to hit me from behind, but my friends saw him and stopped him by grabbing him by the arms, suddenly this girl started yelling at me saying that I was a beast and stuff like that, after that we (me, my friends and this particular couple) got kicked out from this club, I was just astonished, not beacuse I got kicked out no, but the fact that the guy that was with this girl was her boyfriend and he was ugly as **** ...he was a douchebag, I was like WTF why women are with ugly men? Wait beast as in awesome/cool,etc or beast as in ugly,disgusting,etc? Now we all can agree a 1,000 pound person is ugly i'm sure.You may think he's ugly she may think he;s beuatiful. Wait beast as in awesome/cool,etc or beast as in ugly,disgusting,etc? Now we all can agree a 1,000 pound person is ugly i'm sure.And trust me I would have no problem beating the sh!t out of someone who did anything to my wife that was not right.I realize how very, very loosely and open to interpretation I used that phrase. yeah but the thing is that he acted like a douche and that is something that I don't understand also, he tried to hit me from behind, and I didn't know that she was his girlfriend, he was insulting and saying **** to me when I was tried to apologize and seconds later we got kicked out so.... He saw some dude cozying up to his girlfriend and instincts took over rather than rational thought. Mine preaches LOGIC FOR EVERYTHING, RATIONAL DECISIONS but if at ANY point he saw some dude getting all up on me he would have his fist connecting with their face so quickly they'd never even see it coming.You are right in this, it's a natural thing to protect you mate, but being impulsive is stupid, there is self control and that is something that makes us very different from many animals, and from what I've read he tried to apologize and this person was still angry, IMO both are responsible, the TC for doing something stupid and the boyfriend by reacting in a stupid way..but the thing is that he acted like a douche and that is something that I don't understand also, he tried to hit me from behind, and I didn't know that she was his girlfriend, he was insulting and saying **** to me when I was tried to apologize and seconds later we got kicked out so....i love how everyone is making it look like if a woman loves a man for what's inside and not the looks ,the man should be very happy and proud of . if i ever find out that my girl thinks i'm ugly and likes me only for my personality,i will definitely find it a turn off and leave the appearance is a part of me and expect my partner to like that part too.unless i was involved in some kind of a platonic love i wouldn't see any reason to keep a relationship in which my partner wasn't physically passionate towards fact that's what making her shallow and unworthy.[QUOTE="bobaban"] Uh yes it does make him a douchebag.