While it is always involved in an affair, in most cases it isn’t the motive of the affair.
An affair may be about completely different things but it implies betrayal.
But I loved that he had thought to cruise me there. He said, sure once in a while, though it was forbidden. I was there another week after that and we never had an encore. Can't remember the name of the hotel, but it was your basic generic chain hotel.
Years ago at Doubletree hotel in Delaware I played with a guy from the front desk. It was in the evening and I had been driving for hours. Ordered room service and the guy who dropped it off was an older gay guy who was flirting hard core. I ran on the treadmill very early every morning in the little gym just past the front desk.All I wanted to do was work out, shower, go out for drink to unwind. When he had finally lost all of his clothes, it was the first time I had ever seen a guy with a pierced nipple! Guy was a great cocksucker and wore my cum all over his pecs. Hmm, R7, was this the downtown Wilmington Doubletree or the Doubletree that was on a busy road (Concord Pike aka Rt 202) near Widener Law School? I was a bellhop/room service delivery boy in the '70's who didn't have a clue about guys hitting on me, except for the managers and one guy who stayed for a week, requested me by name when ordering, and answered the door either with an open bathrobe or just totally naked and hard, always freshly groomed and handsome. They would call back and I would tell them what room I was in~ either next door to them, or across the court yard...where I would take off my clothes and they would come to my room.I hit the small workout room and while there he walked in - we chatted, but I wasn't going to do anything there. He recommended two, but said "it's a weeknight, they'll be quiet." OK by me I said and headed out. Got to my room and the phone rang a few minutes later. he was in my room within minutes, then on his knees to suck my cock. [quote]if the employee is a hot stud, just say as he's leaving, "When I'm finished, do you want me to leave it outside the door, or do you want me to call you to come get it? I finally arranged to have my lunch break just after making a delivery and asked him point blank if I could stay. I've had about 3 different experiences at different hotels where a hotel employee was flirting and eyeing me up and down. Had one once handing out trays in the Lido You know, the eye contact. Thrashed about in my dark inside cabin and my arm pulled out the wires to the television set. Another crossing I got with "Derick, and it's my real name" while lurking the bridge. One time, there was a couple, and one guy was on his back on the bed, his BF was riding his cock and I sat on his face.Being “neglectful, indifferent, contemptuous, asexual, demeaning, insulting” is not loving behavior and is often as — and sometimes more — damaging as physical abuse (and there are some who argue that infidelity is abuse).And yet, there is no great societal outcry over ending those sorts of behaviors, just societal shaming and blaming of often-long-suffering spouses who cheat.No, White decides: Whatever insufficient sex means to any particular person—even if that can be considered a betrayal of his or her partner’s obligation—the fact remains that adultery just makes it worse.(“Two wrongs” and all.) In addition, adultery brings a third person into what is a problem between two, which may only aggravate whatever problem led to the breakdown in sex in the relationship in the first place.Because we see sex as something that must be consented to, we are loathe to say a husband or wife “owes” the other sex, yet few people don’t want and expect a healthy sex life when they say “I do.” In the work we did for , we asked soon-to-be-married couples to check off all the reasons why they’re getting married. Yet few people talk about how they will handle things if one or the other loses interest in sex especially since that happens more frequently than not.Does an absence of sex in a relationship justify adultery, the good philosopher asks.He was at my door in two minutes flat; and yes, the sex was hot, although I noticed on closer inspection, he had deep pock marks on his face from teenage acne. This has always been a fantasy of mine, I have never opened the door to room service naked but I have been in sweats, tank top, things that come off easily and can be revealing but either I get grandpa or a woman. So, one time when he showed up with my meal, I invited him to sit down in the chair. Not a word of surprise or protest from him, so I undid his belt. I pulled down his trousers and went to work on him.I never get the hot guy, just like I never get the hot pizza delivery guy.[quote] Years ago at Doubletree hotel in Delaware I played with a guy from the front desk. It was in the evening and I had been driving for hours. His guilty conscience prevented any repeat performances, even though I was in the hotel for a while longer and was always ready and willing. When I had an turnover, and got to stay in a room I would try to pick up: When a hot guy would check in I would hand him his key and my fingers would brush his palms.