And not just because these men are “going through a midlife crisis.” (Though, admittedly, sometimes that is true.) In the hundreds of impromptu interviews I’ve conducted over the years with single (and hitched) men, a few commonalities have emerged. And yet statistics show that women over 40, 50 and 60 have lower—way lower, like cross-your-fingers-and-pray— chances of meeting a long term partner. In fact, most men who are looking for a long term, committed relationship do want a woman with similar life experience, which often actually means a lady closer to their own age.
So, what should a woman do – should she not have started dating a younger guy in a first place?
Being around a younger guy makes a woman feel younger as well.
No woman is attracted to a guy who is a couch potato or who is unable to climb a set of stairs without being out of breath, especially if the woman herself is very active.
An intense physical affair might just be something she needs to enjoy your life and to be distracted from her previous break-up or disappointments in men.
Some people are committed to live every moment to its fullest and will do what they can to enjoy what they have while they still have it.