I know it is difficult to understand why God would allow you to have such strong feelings for someone who does not reciprocate those feelings, but He does. Some new kind of relationship has to come out of it, one that accepts the whole history.This new paradigm thanks God for the good and trusts Him to bring glory out of the bad.I would not be with the wonderful man I am now if i had held on hope for my ex which I did for a while. It is possible that this may actually be God's wish for you two to remain separate and find other people to fall in love with and be equally as happy with.I thought that relationship was good, but the one i'm in now is so much better and i'm extremely greatful that my ex is an ex. Breaking up hurts and you pray for a chance to make things back to the way they were but there is a possibility that this will never occur.I go to the dog park six days a week, do my errands, go to my daughter's house now and then, and go to family celebrations. But I want to close myself off so much that I'm thinking that agoraphobia is creeping in on me and it's going to get worse if I don't do something.But always I need to do things fast, make visits short, say my piece and get home. I'm beginning to sink into depression - it started this afternoon. I see my therapist next Wednesday and my psych nurse at the end of the month.But I don't think this depression is chemical in nature. My psych nurse won't give me an anti-depressant because they make me manic.
It also places her in an awkward position, at least for now. Recognize the pit of hell from which that comes, and reject it immediately.
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I then asked if it was a good time to rebuild our friendship. Many wonderful Christian singles end relationships with other wonderful Christians for any number of reasons.
Now you need to respect her by respecting her decision.