Since 2001, Filipino Cupid has connected thousands of Filipino singles with their matches from around the world, making us one of the most trusted Filipino dating sites.As one of the largest dating sites for the Philippines, we have a membership base of over 3.5 million singles interested in finding other singles for dating and serious relationships.And the fact that for every Filipino I am a walking ATM? And that it will certainly give some good reading material for friends longing for my dating adventures.Can I capture the signals a Filipino will be sending me or not? I remember texting with a guy who told me his sister was living in this city and I text: ………. And this is how Filipinos do communicate, there was nothing wrong with his responses, I should never have made that joke, my humour is not theirs. I know the topic will not calm down some of the expats living here in pure bitterness over their ex wives.I Googled for cultural possibilities and obstacles, I searched for possible dating sites and experiences of other white women, dating Asian guys. Really, that subject is either the worlds best kept secret or it is just not happening.
And what about the stereotype of the Filipino man being a drunk gambling addict with an adulterous streak? All I know is that, at the moment I’m tired of being alone and I need some company.O, it happens, Filipino man dating other cultures but that is mostly overseas.Filipinos working and studying abroad stepping into the dating scene. Only party Island Boracay seems to be the place to mingle cultures, but for the rest is is a privilege only for western man.The search for an all Filipino dating site was a hard one, most of them were so oriented on American and western guys looking for true love.I do not want to end up on a dating site where I would be the only western woman facing zillions of western guys profiles.But somehow always managed to lose myself in the process or to end up with a broken heart. And I somehow was so tired of all those stereotype moonlit beach walks, glasses of red wine by the fire place and show and tell about all the damage inflicted by other women.And yet, after every period of healing I got up and started dating again. I closed my profile, had a notary draw up a sworn document that I would never date again and retired from the dating scene. As a happy single I packed my bags and started to travel.(If such is even an option in this country) How do I prevent loosing myself this time?And what will happen to his heart when I decide to move on? I mean the room is paid for that is no problem, but he should be able to pay his own transport and food. Since here people work 6 days a week 12 hours shifts.Ex wives that, in that same bitterness talk about their ex husbands pity marriages here in the Philippines.One guy bluntly told me: Without realizing it he handed me a brilliant subject for my blog.