Whether it's matching you on your favourite interests or finding someone who you share mutual friends with.
Here, we take the biggest alternatives to Tinder and give them a spin to find out what (if anything) they do differently and what sets them apart.
A little self-reflection and image adjustment can go a long way.2. Not long ago I wrote down the hair color, height range, ethnicity, and build of my ideal date and it's amazing how many guys I meet that fall within my "list." But don't just stop there - life isn't all about physical qualities. Sometimes the cosmos have a way of surprising us.3. You wouldn't look for pasta sauce in the frozen food aisle of the grocery store would you? So why do most gay men look for specific types of guys in the wrong places.What kind of personality or demeanor would you like him to have? If you like a certain type of guy, go where those types of guys go.I'd love to say the world is an integrated utopia, but people tend to hang out with others with similar backgrounds or interests. If you don't normally smile, try giving guys a quick grin. So, if you're meeting the wrong type of guys (or the same type), try changing your attitude.Connecting with someone you like can be an overwhelming experience in its beginning stages.Take your time getting to know one another and let the details of your life and your emotions unfold naturally.Once you've broken the ice, find something you guys have in common and go with it.If nothing is apparent ask him if he is interested in the things you're interested in and go from there.6. Be honest and open with your new prospect, but don't give too much too soon.Of course, there's the potential of hitting the jackpot, but unless you're extremely lucky you have to play more than a few coins to hit big.If approaching a guy doesn't work the first time, then try, try again.