Love and dating might just take on quite a lot of time and emotional investment which is probably the reason why more and more Scandinavian men and ladies are openly adopting the hook up culture where you can discretely satisfy each other needs without having to feel awkward about anything the next day!Ever since moving to Europe three years ago, and particularly since launching this male-objectifying exercise of a blog, I have been repeatedly advised – no, instructed – to go to Scandinavia.I’m talking about friends, coworkers, readers, you name it, all promising me some sort of cathartic experience in the land of herring and Ikea, complete with the discovery of my own 7-foot tall Bjorn Ironside with superpowers in the sack. To be frank, I went at a time that I’m sufficiently satisfied with my love life (blame it on the new moon), hence this was more explorative research than Viking-hunting mission.And yet, my loyal Honeymoon Wife* and I gave it a fair shot, visiting both Denmark and Sweden, following all the recommendations we were given, and never returning home before 4am.It can be disheartening to go through life never feeling quite complete because you don’t have someone special to share your life with.With that said, you can change all that when you meet singles by joining a dating site in Sweden.This is the first chance people will get to see you and form an opinion about you, and we all have heard that age old expression that first impressions are the ones that truly matters. According to britishcouncil.org, most people remember the details of their first kiss vividly – with about 90% clarity, in fact. Is he the man with whom you were meant to spend the rest of your days?The more time and effort you put into the beginning stages of your online dating experience (choosing that perfect picture and crafting that alluring profile) the quicker you may have messages filling your inbox from interested singles wanting to get to know more about you. What’s more is that a bad kiss can ruin your chances of dating your kissing partner long-term…. It sucks being caught out on Valentine’s Day, single as can be. Is she the woman with whom you want to build a life?
The situation only got better throughout the day, hitting its peak at the the Copenhagen Street Market, where I could no longer control myself and actually whipped out my camera to capture (and Instagram) all the homogenous hotness (and my Honeymoon Wife threatened to disown me.) Although we were warned that Danish men can be quite stand-offish and reserved, expecting women to take the initiative (these are the people responsible for the who “going Dutch” injustice, after all), we were pleasantly surprised to be approached throughout the entire night – or at least starting 1am, when most people had enough drinks in their system. An unfulfilled fantasy of tall hunks and impeccable street style, both of which never quite measured up to our expectations.Scandinavian locals are often thought to be shy, traditional and quite unfamiliar with the ‘no strings attached’ scenario.I agree, it isn’t Italy where Casanovas or femme fatale might just spring in but Norway and Sweden are not far behind when it comes to giving those ‘other benefits’ with mutual agreement.But don’t they say ‘More innocent it looks, the naughtier it is in the inside?‘ Yeah, that’s right- Scandinavia might just be a delight to your eyes with the beauty of nature but it also takes your other senses for a ride with of its stunning looking locals – hot men and sizzling ladies with whom you can spend some quality time with.My jaw dropped the minute I stepped into a breakfast spot called Union Kitchen and discovered that every male in 5 meter radius, restaurant staff included, appeared to be a Ben Dahlhaus clone.Unlike French hipsters, most of them looked like they actually showered, although I was slightly thrown off by the abundance of bizarre tattoos decorating the entity of their bodies..Like a lone wolf trapped on a floating iceberg, how will you ever return to your wolf pack and find a hot wolf-mate to love? When you date a man or a woman, the feely-weelies and sickening lovey-doveyness at…Norway and Sweden – countries that instils the very beauty of nature at its best are often thought to be the extravagant hub of rich culture and traditions.How often do you get tired of coming home to an empty house after a long day at work and just want someone to cuddle with?Or, maybe you have some exciting news and want to share it with someone that you love, but you can’t because you are single?