You need to have the attitude that you’re not afraid to walk away from the relationship.
One of the most important core values you need to ingrain in you is that people are imperfect.
With insecurity comes thoughts and actions of negativity.
A person suffering from insecurity will constantly find ways to fail, they’ll constantly think ‘I can’t’ instead of ‘I can or I will’. A lot of people are negative and it’s very important that you extremely limit yourself around negative people.
Has anyone been in a spot where they needed to figure out what to do next, in terms of life decisions, living arrangements, finances, mental health treatment, etc., but not been in a stable enough position to feel confidence in your own decisions?
I have a soft spot in my heart for BPD’s because I’ve dated several over the past few years.