***If you post anything that might be a trigger for other members, please add TRIGGER WARNING to the beginning of your post.***For all members that need support with the desire to Self Harm or if you have Self Harmed, please post ONLY in It’s a leadership quality of mine that I’ve worked hard on building in myself. You be stating what you like and don’t like, what you’ll put up with and what you won’t.Don’t be afraid to get into fights over things like this.We all have our own problems and issues and egos that bring us down.I will be critical at times to the women I date, but this is only when they cross the line and do something that I simply don’t want in a relationship.It’s extremely rare to read about any success stories on the BPD forums that are out there.The reason for this is that the men and women succeeding in these relationships just don’t go around posting about it.
After having the first few of these relationships crash and burn, I spent a lot of time educating myself and learning skills that would make these relationships work.
A lot of these people don’t even know their partner has BPD.
They naturally have the attitude, the behavior and the skills needed to succeed. They are going to be unpredictable and they’re going to do things that can make you scratch your head. Your time is much better spent learning how to have the attitude and the skills that BPD’s love in a man or a woman. This is what my BPD Relationship Blueprint is all about.
It’s important that you forgive your loved ones and yourself in order to let go of bitter grudges, pain and heartache.
Maybe you have an ex that caused you a lot of pain and grief.