Not saying he won’t be excited if he was to marry you or have a child with you.
Please don’t pull some overly excited, Mary Poppins-type role. That means, before you go all Sesame Street on them, just take it slow.
So, before you agree to a second date with this guy, seriously think about what you want, because this isn’t only about you anymore.
[Read: 50 relationship questions to test your compatibility] #2 The children come first.
Because let’s face it, you’ll basically be their stepmom.
Now, don’t overstep your role, but you’ll have to show her you’re not going to negatively affect their child’s life.