Pagan also believes that women are not as obsessed with the appearance of prospective mates as men are. Rather, Pagan asserts that a woman will feel attraction automatically when she perceives a man to have certain characteristics such as confidence, lightheartedness, humor and independence, qualities he labels "cocky and funny" or "cocky funny." Thus, while a typical man might hope to appeal to a desirable woman with obsequiousness and unbridled enthusiasm, carefully hiding any reservations he might have about her, a "cocky and funny" one would actually make his reservations abundantly clear from the outset, albeit flirtatiously and with humor.According to Eben Pagan unresolved tension brings us closer together and makes us more physical (hence, more emotional).Pagan contends most men lack a deep understanding of women, and are thus at a loss to attract the ones they desire.As a result, men are forced to accept whoever selects them.Double Your Dating (also known as "DYD") was the second dating company to appear in the market (after Ross Jeffries' Speed Seduction).Today it is the largest dating company with a wide range of products.
Help us improve this profile of Double Your Dating (DYD) by sending us any information you believe to be missing, wrong or lacking detail.It is unusual amongst the dating companies in that it only has one dating coach, David De Angelo himself (real name Eben Pagan).Double Your Dating made a name for itself with its "Cocky & Funny" approach to attracting women.Note: Many of our articles have direct quotes from sources you can cite, within the Wikipedia article! While building this business, Pagan set out to build his skills at meeting women through a number of avenues, including seeking the counsel of "naturals" (men who are naturally good with women) and students of women such as Hypnotica (Eric Von Sydow) Steve Piccus, Dave Riker, Rick H, and as a student of Ross Jeffries. Early in his career, Pagan moved from the Pacific Northwest to continue his career as a real estate and mortgage broker in San Diego, but first found real success in training real estate professionals how to use direct marketing to build sales leads.Following the e Book, Pagan created further materials in the series, including a second ebook, as well as several ebooklets, seminars on DVDs and CDs covering various topics notably the Advanced and Mastery series, Meeting Women Online, Deep Inner Game with Paul Dobransky, M.D., Power Sexuality, On Being a Man, Cocky Comedy, Body Language, Man Transformation, Become Mr.Eben (David De Angelo) no longer actively manages, runs seminars or produces new content for Double Your Dating.He has formally moved on to new interests leaving the running of Double Your Dating to management he has put in place there.The idea he is conveying is that you cannot logically convince a woman to feel attraction for you. Rather, it is the building of unresolved tension in the moment coupled with the resulting anticipation it generates.It should be noted that Pagan has acknowledged that his work is a collection of suggestions and ideas and not to be taken as dogma.