The ultimate way to attract someone is to tease but never fully give in.
An often used analogy with a cat and twine to helps to communicate the dynamics of female interest.
Instead, their power was wielded by removing approval, often by subtle cues such as disengaging with the person and removing focus from them.
Another common was is rather than accusing someone or confronting you with their displeasure directly, they may ask you a question or make a comment that insinuates you’re not impressed, yet.
many dates with great people, become more complacent with what would often impress someone who gets one date a year.
It is this ‘dating economics’, this interplay between supply and demand that creates indifference that sees people who are seen as attractive not jump up and down everytime their date says or does something they like.