For many men, dating older women is a strange transition period.Honestly, for most men, it’s strange when women your own age hit on you.I'm really interested in older women, to be honest, because they have lived a life that I've not yet lived. They know what they want, and they're not afraid to tell you.So I really want to learn from them, and I think culturally we tend to dispose of women once they get to a certain age and they don't look a certain way. Taye Diggs If you've got the body and the chutzpah, a pencil skirt is so sexy on older women. Think 1940s, cinched-in jackets - imagine you are Lauren Bacall on a date with Humphrey Bogart and you just absolutely have to wear very high heels.She simply wants to have fun.” An ABC News story exploring the emerging phenomenon in the early 2000s is a bit more specific, “women usually in their 30s and 40s, who are financially stable and mentally independent and looking for a younger man to have fun with.” Last but not least, Dictionary.com: Cougar [koo-ger] noun, Informal.An older woman who seeks sexual relationships with much younger men: He’s in his twenties, but he prefers cougars in their forties and fifties to young women his own age.
For example, a popular Urban Dictionary definition labels her as, “An ‘older,’ experienced woman who happens to find herself in a sexual relationship (committed or not) with a younger man.It isn’t until around the quarter-century mark before most women, older or younger, will pay the average man any significant amount of attention. Young gents, just because she’s older doesn’t mean she has a disability.That is why I’d like to use my in-depth knowledge with cougar encounters of the close kind to share five tips on how to survive a cougar attack for the next generation of would be prey. Pretending as if you’re doing her a favor by entertaining her company will do nothing more than lead to ignored text messages and phone calls.A fling with a young man brought Stella back to the joys of life.3) To Escape the Ticking Bio Clock Younger women in their 30's are often worried about their biological clocks ticking away and with good reason.What are the pros/cons of dealing with a younger man?Have any tips for the young men in the audience in improving their approach or odds of success?While older women are often labeled as 'tired' and 'out of touch,' aging men get to be 'distinguished' and 'seasoned.' Bonnie Hammer I hate to generalize, but in general, both men and women suffer from ageism. One sad thing about being my age is that there are no older women.Men much less because men gain power as they get older. Men are seen as gaining experience and being distinguished. I used to amuse my mother's friends even at five or six with witty turns of phrase. Howard Jacobson Clearly older women and especially older women who have led an active life or elder women who successfully maneuver through their own family life have so much to teach us about sharing, patience, and wisdom.If you want to have children, time does run out at some point.But with an older woman, she is past thinking "family" or already has her family and so the pressure on that young man is off. Today many women have power jobs and make a boat load of ka-ching.