With an older woman, he can actually skirt the whole family thing and just enjoy. And so, just like younger women who date older men, younger men are looking for the flip side of the traditional equation.And let's face it, many of these "cougar-types" are looking for what older men have known for years.– Source: TIMEThe definition for describing a ‘cougar’ is quite fluid.For example, a popular Urban Dictionary definition labels her as, “An ‘older,’ experienced woman who happens to find herself in a sexual relationship (committed or not) with a younger man.Amanda de Cadenet I've always been attracted to women who are assertive and have confidence - qualities older women possess. Twiggy It's such a challenging time, and in my small way, I will make it so that other younger women, and maybe older women, will be able to do the things they want to do, and accept themselves and their experience.Kelela In the American office lexicon, 'aging' - and its close cousin 'old' - are inconsistent modifiers.A fling with a young man brought Stella back to the joys of life.3) To Escape the Ticking Bio Clock Younger women in their 30's are often worried about their biological clocks ticking away and with good reason.
Ladies, as you’ve gotten older has your willingness to entertain the advances of younger men grown?Older women who date younger men, affectionately known as “cougars” in most social circles, are awesome.There are a number of reasons not limited to the fact that many studies have shown they actually have higher sex drives than their younger counterparts. Here’s a quote from a TIME article on the subject: Women ages 27 through 45 report not only having more sexual fantasies (and more intense sexual fantasies) than women ages 18 through 26 but also having more sex, period.Allow your self-esteem to rise as you think of yourself as the attractive, alluring woman that you really are. 2) For Fun Cyndi Lauper says "Girls just want to have fun." so go ahead and have some fun with that younger man who could be looking for the very same thing.Sometimes life brings you an opportunity just for the sake of a good time. That's what the movie "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" was all about.It isn’t until around the quarter-century mark before most women, older or younger, will pay the average man any significant amount of attention. Young gents, just because she’s older doesn’t mean she has a disability.That is why I’d like to use my in-depth knowledge with cougar encounters of the close kind to share five tips on how to survive a cougar attack for the next generation of would be prey. Pretending as if you’re doing her a favor by entertaining her company will do nothing more than lead to ignored text messages and phone calls.She simply wants to have fun.” An ABC News story exploring the emerging phenomenon in the early 2000s is a bit more specific, “women usually in their 30s and 40s, who are financially stable and mentally independent and looking for a younger man to have fun with.” Last but not least, Dictionary.com: Cougar [koo-ger] noun, Informal.An older woman who seeks sexual relationships with much younger men: He’s in his twenties, but he prefers cougars in their forties and fifties to young women his own age.What are the pros/cons of dealing with a younger man?Have any tips for the young men in the audience in improving their approach or odds of success?