The situation faced by many expats is that they don't mind paying, because they understand that the girl cannot afford some expenses that are clearly part of the "expat lifestyle".However, they do not want to be considered as cash cows or walking ATMs.If you find out she is lying to you, do not tolerate it and walk away from the relationship.- Control yourself: Adapt your lifestyle too and try to spend less than usual.– Why you love him: “Look at him there, chest bulging out with not an ounce of fat on that body.I bet he could put me in positions no other man could.” Reality: You’re going to be so sore after the workout he demands you do both in and out of the bedroom that you’re going to give up after a month of not eating chocolate and waking up for 5a.m. The fact remains that outside of simple eye candy this guy has nothing to offer anyone, even if he does have his own tv show.When you ask backpackers in Jalan Jaksa about the girls they sleep with, they will often tell you girls who are dating older men.
By going to less expensive restaurants, you give her the opportunity to treat you as well.
Expats dating Indonesian girls are numerous, and many will find that though certain aspects of their relationships are much easier than with a western girl, there are also some difficulties that men need to take seriously if they want to be successful.
I listed the 4 main hardships expats have to overcome when dating an Indonesian girlfriend: Money: Dealing with the gap in revenues between you and your Indonesian girlfriend is not an easy task.
It may not be a problem at the beginning, but soon, some issues will appear: Who needs to pay for the restaurant?
For the plane ticket to Bali when you go on holidays?