Women are simply more comfortable around people who remind them of themselves.
Which brings us to our next examples: Travel makes an awesome subject for a first message because it’s something most women enjoy doing, or at least enjoy dreaming about.
Very rarely was anything of substance shared there and more or less, everyone had the same opportunity to meet and connect with others.
The interactions were unique because of the anonymity given by using My Space.
Perhaps my perspective here might help you when seeking your next mate on there (or not). I turned 19 and I was good with finding and meeting prospective dates on there.
You were defined by how cool your My Space layout was – animated GIFs, custom CSS and your favorite embedded You Tube video.
Dating sites like Ok Cupid and Plenty of Fish (POF) became more popular.Decent guys who really were more descriptive in their profiles were pushed out by the overtly masculine “bros” that dominated the site.As a result, they destroyed the network of decent matches.First, was the women became less trusting, less open and much more selective in who they even talk to.Second, the number of dudes in shirtless photos and less engaging profiles shot way up.Whether it’s Match.com, Ok Cupid, POF, or Tinder, it sucks sending a message to a girl you really like and getting ignored.This is why most guys give up entirely within just a few months.They have a decent algorithm as I found myself conversing with smart, funny and attractive women regularly. There wasn’t much competition — that is, not many other guys were using it when I was.Eventually as more and more men (late majority) joined the site, I observed two problems.I’m not the typical “guy” who posts shirtless pictures of himself on dating sites or sends unsolicited pictures of his genitals to random women.But I am a guy who is fond of online dating sites, so I have a few tips that might help you when using them.