One of my best Western friends is going to marry the man she met in China next year. Unfortunately the past is difficult to get away from and some lash out at their own history and culture. What isn't as well documented is the fact that coping with inferiority complexes affects all areas in dealing with foreigners today, including relationships.Putting aside the viral stories of Chinese companies using token foreigners as a sign of being "international," we can see this skewed perception of reality demonstrated by those who only date foreigners.Unfortunately, some Chinese women see Western guys as a free ticket to an overseas trip or a foreign passport, but there are gold-diggers anywhere in the world. Many Western guys would like to believe Chinese women date them because they have a more muscular appearance or are bigger in size.It is not true, although I can see how this "theory" feeds their racist ego.
What this means is that Asian men are never portrayed in a romantic way and Asian women are portrayed as submissive sex objects, usually with white men.I told him once, if he could move his focus from boobs to the conversation, his problem would be solved. Some Western men are certainly spoiled by Chinese women.My former roommate said Western guys would never dare to treat Swiss women the way they treated Chinese women.The Global Times has invited three people to share their views of interracial relationships in today's China.By Cecily Huang An English friend, who just moved back to London from China, told me he missed China, and more importantly, the attention from Chinese women that he will never get in London.That was the beauty of having a relationship with a Westerner.My education and life experience made me a strong and independent woman.They shouted rude words and they tried to start a fight in a bar for no reason. Wong Ever since the "century of humiliation" Chinese have been struggling with identity and who they are vis-à-vis foreigners.If they believe foreign white men lure away Chinese women, why can't they lure us back by having better manners and treating women better? This is all the more pronounced due to China's rise recently.What this means is that foreign men have the impression that Asian women are easy and they are entitled to them.While giving foreign men a confidence boost, it warps their perception to the point it is not about people, but objects.