Conversely, the man with multiple photos may be on an ego trip.
This is because they leave a trail that you can pick up on and this trail will help improve your chances of spotting him for what he really is.However, a word of warning to the wise, spotting a player isn’t an exact science so don’t cry wolf before you are certain.Before we launch into the signs you need to look for to determine whether or not he is a player, we should first define exactly what a player is.Maybe you're inwardly flattered, but generally you ignore such attention. "Hmmmm" may be Man Code for many things (e.g., "sleeping with you might be interesting," or "I'm bored so please entertain me with witty online banter").You certainly don't whistle back -- or go and start a conversation! It signals ambivalence and/or arrogance -- not decisiveness and determination.No man who truly recognizes you for the Dreamgirl you are would risk alienating -- or even confusing -- you with such a lame, passive-aggressive come-on. He has no picture posted -- or, at the other extreme, he's got a veritable picture gallery displayed.If you MUST reply, write back "Hmmm yourself" -- and NOTHING else. There's really no good reason for an unmarried, normal looking man not to have a picture publicly available if he's got an online dating account.Yes, it's possible he's a wimp or insecure (and therefore not really robust dating material anyway).But it's far more likely he's e-blasting winks to innumerable women to see what kind of responses he'll solicit.Winks demonstrate laziness and lack of specific, intense interest in you that will invariably show up later in letdowns, small and large.Treat online winks like whistles you might elicit on a busy city street.