You don’t look before you leap, which is like, ‘Yay, this is awesome! Unhealthy relationships are marked by high levels of infatuation and oftentimes, obsession.The tell-tale sign that the relationship is sprouted from unhealthy soil is if you experience these intense feelings before even getting to know the other person in a real way, and of course, justifying the way you feel by deeming it “love at first sight.” To avoid being blindsided, or getting in over your head, it’s essential to go slow at the beginning of a relationship.In the real world, personal growth takes a lot of work and time.When it comes to relationships, Taylor seems to go from 0 to 60 overnight. ’” What Taylor, and most girls out there, needs to realize is that a healthy relationship is one that begins with mutual interest that grows over time.It may seem like the guys she dates are just jerks, but I think that’s unfair.I’m sure at one point they did have feelings for her and were sincere when they pursued the relationship.
(More: How to Make Men Chase You Without Playing Games) Taylor doesn’t seem to leave any room for the pursuit.
Another recurring theme in Taylor’s love life is that the guys she dates seem to drop her in sudden, callous ways (i.e. Taylor paints the guys out to be the bad ones, but as we’ve said before, when a guy feels a needy energy coming from a woman, he will want to get away from her and get out of the situation as quickly as possible.
Neediness is a death sentence for any relationship.
Plus, by being so aggressive, she leaves very little room for the guy to pursue her and when a guy doesn’t have that, his interest will quickly plummet.
According to Taylor’s song lyrics, she’s been blindsided more than a few times by guys who came on all strong in the beginning and then dropped her seemingly out of the blue.