The flip side of this is that because it’s easy EVERYONE is doing it.The sheer ‘noise’ coming from every thirsty chump in the universe is something a skilled player has to cut through to even get a woman to respond to him online.If you like the look of a girl and get along invite her for coffee afterward. Eventually, you talk about family and babies and raising children in this crazy mixed up world of ours and figure out if she’s on the same page. Online dating isn’t a short cut to pussy, rewarding long term relationships or marriage and family for men that haven’t invested time in learning both about themselves and about women and female nature.It’s subject to most of the same ‘rules’ as the real world dating/mating game only with a couple of the main variations that aren’t really in any man’s favor when you stop to think about it. Because it’s easy and effortless to hit up women online, men who have confidence issues in relation to this in the real world can sit in front of a computer and spam ‘Hi, my name is John…’ to about 160 women a day.If they want to bail on you or flake on you online, they can. So for all the effort it takes to do all this online shit you don’t even really know if the person you are talking to really is who they say they are.You might be talking to a 240lbs bouncer in Poland looking to get an autistic IT nerd to send him money via pay pal using his hot nieces modeling pictures.
Sprinkle the conversation with subtle references and nods to all the shit she already told the universe floats her boat in her long rambling self-indulgent profile.Use this as an opportunity to meet and interact with new people (male and female) who share your interests and broadly speaking your spiritual outlook.Don’t force it but allow things to develop organically.Post a short non-specific message about how you are interested in meeting different kinds of people and seeing where this journey is going to take you. Mock the whole dating process and the website itself. Ask them a dumb question for example about some item in the background of one of their profile pictures (IGNORE their looks and NEVER comment on them…that’s what EVERY other chump is already doing).You want to stand out as a rebel and an adventurer so communicate that. Once they fire back, scan through their profile get a handle on their values and personality quirks and reflect them back to her in conversation. You have stories to tell, and passions to share, and things to talk about that are more interesting than the weather.Get noticed for who you are, not what you look like. Meanwhile, In the real world, you can cut through all the noise and get a girl’s attention simply by puffing out your chest and raising your voice.Because of the different dynamics at play women on online dating sites are very pissed off with the volume of constant hits they get and tend to be very impatient and unforgiving. It means you need MORE game to get through it and get her to relax and open up online than you do in the ‘real world.’ Not less.- Meet other singles around the world with Metrodate.com! Join Metrodate for FREE About Languages Dating Tips Articles Success Stories Advertising Help